They say men are scum. To be fair, that doesn’t apply to all men, but there are certain kinds of men who fit perfectly into that category. These men behave badly toward women, leaving them with deeply sad tales. Unfortunately, many ladies keep falling for them, often unknowingly. You can protect yourself from such men by understanding who they are and how they operate.
1. The Misogynist
The misogynist discriminates against women. As far as he is concerned, women should be beneath men. A woman shouldn’t have a say in a relationship. She shouldn’t even have a say in the family, let alone in society.
Why would you, as a woman, want to date that kind of man? Dating him would be a total disaster because he would treat you like you’re nothing. He would treat you like you’re not even a human being. He would always put himself above you and never take you seriously. The relationship would feel like a master-and-slave situation.
You might wonder how to tell he’s a misogynist before getting too deep. You can tell from the little things. Listen to his conversations. What does he say about women? Is he condescending? From the stories he tells about his interactions with other women, you can tell who he really is. The moment you spot this, you should walk away. If he thinks women are beneath men, he might as well date himself.
2. The Narcissist
Dating a narcissist is a disaster. He will always put himself first, neglecting your needs. Even though you are in the relationship, he becomes the center of everything. The relationship revolves around him.
A narcissist will not pay attention to you or your needs. He will turn a blind eye to anything that involves you. This is the height of selfishness. You could be standing right in front of him, and he still won’t notice you.
Dating such a person feels like a sentence to hell. Your needs will never be acknowledged, let alone met. Avoiding a narcissist in a relationship will save you a lot of pain.
3. The Love Bomber
Love bombing might seem like a good thing at first. He gives you attention and goes out of his way to win you over. But how long can he keep that up?
For most love bombers, you are a conquest. They see you as a target and will go to any length to sweep you off your feet. Once they achieve their aim, they can switch up instantly. They have already conquered you, so the effort stops.
If someone goes the extra mile in ways that feel unrealistic just to get your attention and rush you into a relationship, you need to run. Love bombing is a technique many men use when they see women as conquests. Once they succeed, their true colors show, and most of the time, those colors are nothing to write home about.
4. The Insecure Man
Dating an insecure man is a chore. Every day, he brings out his insecurities. He feels jealous and threatened constantly. Just being yourself can make him uncomfortable.
An insecure man will constantly nag you and may even emotionally abuse you to feed his ego. He wants to feel like the man in the relationship. He will look for ways to put you down to feel better about himself.
He won’t trust you or think highly of you. Everything you do feels like a threat to his ego. He expects you to worship the ground he walks on; if you don’t, the relationship becomes fraught with problems.
5. The Broke Man
You have no business dating a broke man. A broke man can’t take care of himself, let alone you. This point has been made repeatedly and discussed extensively in the video titled *Why Broke Men Should Not Be Dating*.
Dating a broke man does no good. If anything, it brings trouble and heartache. You are better off avoiding that situation altogether.
There you have it, the five types of men you should never date: the misogynist, the narcissist, the love bomber, the insecure man, and the broke man. These men are disasters, and you are better off avoiding them, let alone dating them.
This doesn’t mean all men fall into these categories. There are good men out there - you just have to be careful and patient to find them.
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