Side pieces are constantly demonized. They are seen as the other woman or man, causing a nightmare in people’s relationships. Ironically, many people in relationships continue to harbor side pieces, and those side pieces are winning because they are playing their parts right, to the detriment of the main partners.
How exactly are side pieces winning over main boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, or wives?
1. They Always Look the Part
Come to think of it, I’ve never seen a side piece who’s ugly or unkept. They make a point of always looking good. They tend to have the best bodies, and they take body goals seriously. Side pieces prioritize working out and taking good care of their skin.
Have you seen them? They’re always glowy, always looking fantastic, always beautiful. And you know how it is with men. We love beautiful women. We love beauty. When a woman takes good care of herself and always looks the part, like she’s a million bucks, it’s easier to be attracted to her because she’s attractive.
Side pieces make a point of always looking their best. As the main chick or even the wife, there’s a level of complacency you tend to have because you already have the man. You probably think, “I have him. If he’s with me, it’s because he really loves me, and he can’t be with someone else.” But that isn’t always true.
You probably had it going on for you before he met you. You were always looking your best, taking care of yourself, glowing and shining. But the moment you started dating, you became laid back. You stopped paying attention to yourself, and that’s not cool at all.
The side chick takes her physical appearance very seriously. She understands that men are moved by what they see, so she puts in the work. She works out and sometimes even goes under the knife. Whatever she has to do, she does it, knowing it’ll help her get the man and keep the man.
Looking the part, having a banging body, and being attractive are among the reasons why side pieces are winning.
2. They Know How to Massage a Man’s Ego
It’s a man’s world. I know that statement is flawed, but it is what it is. Men love to feel respected. They love it when their ego is massaged, when they’re made to feel like they matter, like they’re everything.
The side piece understands this. She isn’t about power tussles. She isn’t trying to prove a point or show she’s a boss lady, even if she may be one. When it’s time to be with the man and get what she wants, she becomes submissive, loyal, and obedient.
You know what they say about stooping to conquer. Sometimes, you have to stoop to conquer. If you’re always trying to prove a point as the main chick, always trying to show him you’re in control and can do whatever you want, you’re indirectly making him feel like he isn’t man enough.
I'm not condoning women being controlled by men. That’s not the point. The point is that the side chick understands that sometimes she has to stoop to conquer. She does whatever it takes to massage a man’s ego. She makes him feel not just loved but respected.
Respect is very important to men. A man wants to feel like he’s in charge, like he’s the head of the relationship. If you constantly challenge him, you’re pushing him away and straight into the arms of a side chick.
3. They’re More Fun to Be Around
There’s hardly ever a dull moment with a side piece. She understands that a man wants to unwind, relax, and have fun. He’s probably bored at home because the main chick or wife isn’t giving him excitement anymore.
The side chick doesn’t nag him with her troubles or demands. When she’s with him, she lets him relax, breathe, and just enjoy himself. She’s always coming up with interesting ideas and fun activities to spice things up.
As the main partner, you may feel comfortable and unbothered, thinking that being together is enough. But it isn’t. If you stop making the relationship exciting, your man will seek excitement elsewhere, and it’ll most likely be with a side chick.
You need to stop being boring. Learn how to be more fun. Even if you’re introverted, fun is something you can learn. The side chick does this effortlessly. She gives him something to look forward to, which is why he keeps running back to her.
4. They’re More Sexually Adventurous
If there’s one thing we have to give side pieces credit for, it’s this. They’re adventurous in bed. They’re always willing to try new things, positions, and experiences, all to satisfy the man.
Side pieces understand that men love adventure in the bedroom. They give the man whatever he wants and satisfy him to the fullest. That’s why he keeps coming back.
As the main chick, you may feel like you don’t need to bother because he’s already yours. But that mindset pushes him away. The side chick is always ready to indulge his fantasies. That doesn’t mean you should do things you’re uncomfortable with. Some things may not sit well with you, and that’s fine. But being completely boring in bed isn’t helping you either.
At the end of the day, these are the reasons side pieces are winning. They love themselves, take care of themselves, massage a man’s ego, know how to have fun, and understand the game. While the main chick is often trying to prove a point and assert control, the side chick stoops to conquer and gets what she wants. If you're a side piece and want to upgrade to the main partner, you can do that by pandering to his emotions.