If you’re dating a broke man and he’s loyal, you may feel happy because it makes you feel secure. But if his financial situation were different and he were rich, would he still be loyal to you? People’s true colors show when they’re comfortable and not struggling.
Before you get excited about your broke man having your back, you need to know exactly why he’s sticking with you.
1. They Can’t Afford Other Women
He’s broke, so how’s he supposed to spend money to get other women? When a guy is broke, he’s very limited when it comes to money. We all know that women love money. Where there’s money, they want to be there, and where there’s no money, you won’t find many women. Maybe not all women, but the majority.
When a man is broke, it’s simple. He doesn’t have the money to draw women closer to him. That explains why he’s loyal to the one woman he managed to get for himself. If he wanted other women, he’d need money to entice them and make them feel special. He’s loyal because he can’t afford other women.
2. They Feel Insecure
Money is an energy booster. As a man, when you have money, you feel like you’re on top of the world. You feel like you have everything under control. Without money, a man feels incapacitated. There isn’t much he can do.
If you are dating a broke man, his financial insecurity keeps him grounded and loyal because he doesn’t feel confident enough to explore other options.
3. They’re Unambitious
Have you seen a really ambitious broke guy? Many broke guys have no ambition. If they were ambitious, they might not be rich, but they wouldn’t be broke. When a guy is totally broke, it’s usually because he’s unambitious. Since he’s been able to get you as his girlfriend or wife, he feels like he’s already achieved something big.
He becomes comfortable and complacent. He doesn’t feel the need to push himself to achieve more. He stays with you because you’re comfortable and not complaining about his being broke. If you’re not complaining, he isn’t bothered.
That comfort is one of the reasons he remains broke. If you were pushing him to do better, he might not be in that position. You think he loves you deeply, but he’s likely with you because he’s unambitious and not motivated to pursue other women.
4. They Have Nothing Else Going On
If he doesn’t have money, he most likely doesn’t have much going on in his life. If he had things going on, places to go, or business trips to attend, he’d meet more women. Meeting more women creates more temptation.
If you're in a relationship with a broke man, you’re everything he has. You’re the center of his world and the focus of his full attention. He talks about you all the time because there’s nothing else happening in his life.
You think he loves you intensely, but in many cases, you’re simply the best thing going on for him.
5. They Have Limited Options
Money makes the world go round. When a man doesn’t have money, his options are limited. If he had money, he could easily walk away and find someone else. Without money, he doesn’t have that luxury.
He sticks with you because you’re all he has. Limited options are a major reason why broke guys are loyal.
If you really want to know if a man loves you, watch what happens when he has money and options. If he still chooses you when he can choose anyone else, then you know it’s real. When his options are limited, loyalty doesn’t always mean love.