Do you want a rich boyfriend? Dating a wealthy man who will take you around the world, spend money on you, and give you the good life is something many people desire. You can have him if you put in the work.
1. Look the part
You can’t be seeking a rich boyfriend and then look tacky. The best your tacky look will get you is a tacky boyfriend. No rich boy wants to end up with a girl who doesn’t look the part.
Life is not a romance movie where a rich boy meets a poor girl, they fall in love, and they get married. People generally want to level up. They want to mingle with people in their category, people on their level. Nobody wants to level down.
If you’re looking for a rich boyfriend, a good place to start is to upgrade your look. You have to change your wardrobe. Invest in some expensive clothing. Basically, you need to look rich. When he sees you, he should think you’re on his level.
Stop buying cheap clothing; they’re not going to get a rich man. You may not be able to buy so much, but the little you can buy will go a long way in helping you land a rich boyfriend.
When you show up, you want those guys to take double looks at you. You want them to wonder who this girl is. And it’s all in your clothing, your shoes, your bags, and other accessories. You have to spend money to make money. If you’re very serious about landing yourself a rich boyfriend, start investing in your appearance.
Buy good clothing at designer stores. You may not have the money, but you can save for it. Remember, it’s an investment. Once you land that rich boyfriend, you will begin to see returns on your investment. No tacky dressing. Now it’s time for you to upgrade.
Rich men and rich boys love women who look nothing but sexy, but you need to understand that sexy isn’t trashy. In an attempt to look sexy, a lot of women go overboard. You don’t want to look desperate. You don’t want to put your body on display.
Wealthy guys get a lot of attention from girls. If you try too hard, they can tell from a distance. The idea is to look sexy and classy, not too much. Make a fashion statement.
2. Educate yourself about a rich man’s lifestyle
There are certain things rich men love to do. They have specific interests. If you’re going to roll in their circle or roll with them, you have to keep up. You need to be able to hold intelligent conversations. When he begins to talk about finance, you don’t want to be clueless about what he’s saying. If he sees that you’re ignorant, he will know that he is out of your league.
What is your knowledge of finance? What is your understanding of politics? Very wealthy men are well-versed in politics. When he brings up a topic about politics, you want to be able to keep up with him. It’s okay if you don’t know this right now, but you need to prepare yourself. It’s all about learning.
Start to read about those things. Read publications on finance, politics, and even sports so that when the time comes, and you’re in a room with such people, you will be able to flow. You won’t be clueless.
If you are well-informed, you could even bring up topics to engage him. When he starts to talk about the realities in the finance industry, you will have a thing or two to contribute. And when he’s talking about the political climate, you will have something to say.
A lot of wealthy men are sapiosexuals. They are attracted to intelligence. Besides looking good, you also want to let him know that you are more than your looks and that you have something upstairs.
3. Consider becoming an actress or a model
In case you haven’t noticed, very wealthy men have a thing for models and actresses. Oh yes, they do. Take a look around you, and you will see that the so-called models and actresses are rolling with the wealthy men. Models and actresses are on TV. They are famous, and even though wealthy men have all the money they need, they are fascinated with fame.
They want to associate with these models and actresses just because they are famous. They may not even be the most good-looking people in the room or in their environment, but that thing they have always worked for them.
If you’re interested in acting or modeling, this is even more reason to go for it. Oh yes. By the time you introduce yourself as an actress or model, trust me, that rich guy will be interested in you.
You might not even be that famous yet. Once you have one or two movie credits or a modeling gig to your name, and a billboard on the streets with your face on it, it’s a done deal. Rich guys will be more interested in getting to know you because you are like a trophy to them.
If acting or modeling is something you find fascinating and you’re really interested in landing a rich boyfriend, what are you waiting for?
4. Move into a neighborhood where rich people live
What better way to meet a wealthy man than to live close to him? There is classism in society. People of different classes live in different places. Moving into a neighborhood where rich people live will give you a higher chance of meeting that rich boyfriend you’re looking for. And that’s because you are around them.
You have even more options to choose from. When you’re walking on the streets, there’s a chance that that rich guy could pull over for you just to talk to you. When you’re taking your dog for a walk, there’s a chance that that rich guy could be taking his own dog for a walk, and then he will see you and could even strike up a conversation with you.
You might not be able to afford a place in such an environment, especially if you don’t have the means yet. So what do you do? Consider getting an apartment in an area close to the central area.
This way, even though you’re not living right there in their midst, you are very close to them. You might even go to the grocery store in their neighborhood to get things for yourself, and in the process, you could run into that rich boyfriend you’re looking for.
Being close to them has a way of helping you absorb yourself into that rich environment and circle. See how they live, what they do, and you could participate in some of those things.
5. Frequent places that rich men go to
Frequenting places rich men go is about positioning, and it’s similar to moving into a neighborhood where they live. If you can’t afford to move into their neighborhood, you can at least position yourself in the environments they frequent. The idea is to make them see you. That rich guy is not going to come for you if he doesn’t see you.
You need to be strategic about your positioning. So the idea is to frequent the places they go. And where are those places? You could go to high-end restaurants, expensive gyms, polo matches, golf tournaments, and gallery openings. The list is endless. Even exclusive clubs.
When you engage with those people in such places, they will know that for you to be in such environments, you must have something upstairs, too. Because those places are not open to just anybody.
Just by being in that environment with them, you have a higher chance that they will actually pay attention to you if you decide to talk to them because they know that you’re not just some random stranger on the streets.
By going to those places, you will see these guys more, and your chances of hooking them up will be higher because they will see you continuously. They will even engage with you.
If you’ve already prepared by educating yourself about their interests, it will be easier for you to get them if they talk to you. They will know that you have something upstairs and are relatable.
Make a list of all the cool places that rich men go, and then go to those places as often as you can. Every day you go there is an opportunity. If you go today and it doesn’t work out, go tomorrow. Keep going. You might not land that rich boyfriend on your first shot, so you have to keep going.
6. Volunteer to work at strategic places
You might not be able to get a job at that Fortune 500 company. So, what do you do? Have you considered volunteering there? If there’s an opening, you should grab it. Make a list of the places where the big boys work. While you might not be able to get a job there, you can volunteer.
Rich men love hard-working women. When you’re in that organization, they will be more drawn to you because they can clearly see that you’re working for your own money. You’re not sitting around, expecting a man to pay your bills.
Look at it this way. Who do you think a rich man will be more interested in? The girl who works in his office or some random girl on the street? Obviously, it’s the girl who works in his office.
Not only does he see her all the time, but he also knows she is working for a living, so he will think she is more responsible. Another good thing about working in such an environment is that you will get to meet a lot of rich people.
You might not be interested in dating women, but those women will have rich men as friends. Once you become friends with those women, it’s only a matter of time before they introduce you to their rich male friends.
7. Desist from acting like a gold digger
The goal is to have a rich boyfriend, but you don’t have to make it obvious. If you do, he will run. No rich man wants to be with a gold digger. They’ve seen so many gold diggers, and they can smell them from a thousand miles away.
You’ll be doing yourself a lot of good by dropping anything that suggests you’re a gold digger. You want to create the impression that you’re not after his money, that you’re fine on your own, and that you’re independent and can take care of yourself.
That way, he will be drawn to you and will willingly begin spending his money on you. But when it’s obvious you want his money, trust me, you won’t see a dime. You won’t see a dime.
Don’t ask him for money. Let him be the one to give you money. In fact, don’t even bring up the subject when you’re with him. Forget that you need money. Be self-sufficient. You are independent. You can take care of yourself. Don’t ask him for money, because when you do, he will feel you are a gold digger.
Rich men are everywhere. They live among us in society. Which girls have them? If those girls can have them, why can’t you?
No rich man wants a liability. At least you don’t have to make it obvious that you are one. Yes, you want him to upgrade you and give you a particular lifestyle, but before that happens, you have to develop yourself.
He’s not going to fall madly in love with you just because you’re beautiful or because you know a thing or two about the affluent lifestyle. Self-development is very important. While you’re waiting for that to happen, you need to make the effort to develop yourself.