When I hear stories of couples dating for over ten years, it gives me the chills. Unless you guys started dating as Teenagers or have no intention of getting married, you have no business being in the dating club with one partner for so many years. Really, what are you waiting for? For the heavens to come down before you say “I do?” In these times, I understand that when it comes to making marriage proposals, the ball is in the man’s court. But that’s no excuse for a woman sit put, waiting forever until Mr. Lover-boy is “ready” to pop the question. You need to know how to make him marry you now or never!
Six Ways to Make Him Marry You Now or Never
• Fall in love with yourself
We all seek love from others, and most times, forgetting to love ourselves. Somehow, we feel that it doesn’t matter how we feel about ourselves, but it does, because it affects how we present ourselves to others and how they see us. If you don’t think you are special, then it’s futile to expect other people to treat you specially. You don’t have to be obsessed with yourself or narcissistic, just accept yourself for who you are. If you can’t be a single and happy woman, you might not find that happiness while married.
• Be marriage material
Most women want to get married, but they haven’t considered the thought that they may not be marriage material, someone that a man would want to get and stayed married to. Even if you mesmerize him with your beauty and he puts a ring on it, what happens after the big fancy wedding? When you are ready to join the married league, you need to make some adjustments to the “selfishness” of being single and become wife material by putting your man’s well-being at the top of your priorities.
• Be a helper to him
The holy bible clearly states that when a man finds a wife, he finds a good thing, because she will be his helper, strength, comforter, and motivation. You might as well start being his helper now, so he’ll know that you have it covered. This isn’t about slavery but caring. You man is your baby and should be cared for as one. Play your own part. Don’t wait to be told what you are supposed to do. Submit to him by showing him some respect because no man wants a disrespectful woman for a wife.
• Keep yourself beautiful
Taking care of yourself is for your own good and his. A man likes to feel that he has a treasure, one he could always show off to his friends. It doesn’t make him superficial. There’s that joy it brings, knowing that the woman you love is attractive, it boosts his ego. Don’t let yourself ‘go,’ neglecting your beauty needs. He should always be in a hurry to come back home to you.
• Give him hints
Perhaps he genuinely hasn’t thought of it or is pretending not to be aware, you need to bring it to his notice. While chatting with him, subtly chip in some things you’d like to do or have when you get married. Talk about marriage. But don’t push it; you don’t want to be a nag. The moment you mention marriage, he’d get the drift. If you are talking about marriage and you are in an exclusive relationship with him, isn’t it obvious that he’s the future husband you are referring to?
• Request to meet his family
If you two have been together for a while and he hasn’t introduced you to any members of his family, you need to bring it up. Casually say it while you two are having a good talk. Tell him you’d like to meet them because you know how important they are to him. Once you meet them, and they like you, you have one foot into the family already.
Some men are scared of the word marriage; it sounds like prison, taking away their freedom. And if a woman is comfortable with just being his girlfriend, he wouldn’t bulge to do the right thing. Knowing how to make him marry you might be the push he needs to get over his paranoia.
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