One would think the most beautiful girls would have the best selection of men, but that’s hardly the case. Despite their astonishing good looks, these women end up with losers. They befriend and sometimes even marry men who don’t have much to offer. Why is that so?
1. They Don’t Believe They’re Worthy
How you feel about yourself most of the time has nothing to do with how you look. It’s surprising to see a very beautiful girl who is gorgeous, but doesn’t believe in herself. She has low self-esteem, probably because of what she’s been through in life or what people have said about her. She’s allowed all of these things to erode her self-esteem.
Everybody sees her and thinks she’s beautiful, but she doesn’t feel that way. When a loser comes along, she feels she has to be with that person because that’s the best she can get. What she doesn’t realize is that she deserves so much more.
Low self-esteem is a serious issue. It affects all of us at some point in life, but we owe it to ourselves to keep pushing and snap out of it. Your self-esteem shouldn’t be tied to how you look. Being pretty is a bonus.
When you’re beautiful, that’s even more reason to be confident. You have what it takes to command attention. You have no reason to feel lonely or bad about yourself. Life happens, situations happen, but at the end of the day, you need to believe you deserve more. You don’t have to settle for a loser just because you feel like that’s what you deserve.
2. Losers Do the Most to Impress Them
When a loser meets you, he goes the extra mile to woo you. This is love bombing. He does everything in the book just to impress you. As a pretty girl, you’re used to attention, so you enjoy it even more when someone is clearly doing everything to get it.
Men generally try to impress the women they want, but losers take it a notch higher. They love-bomb you so much that it becomes hard to say no. Before you know it, you’re already with them.
When something feels too good to be true, it probably is. You don’t have to fall for it. A confident man only does what’s necessary. He understands that as much as he wants you, you also have to want him.
When a guy goes overboard trying to impress you, be careful. You have options. Men want your attention, so take your time choosing. If someone is trying too hard, they may be hiding something.
3. They’re Afraid of Being Alone
Nobody wants to be alone. Life is meant to be lived with others. You want to love and be loved in return, and that’s beautiful. But you shouldn’t rush into a relationship, especially with a loser, just because you don’t want to be alone.
There are many men out there. You’re pretty, and you need to let that sink in. If you don’t meet someone today, you’ll meet someone tomorrow.
Loneliness isn’t always a bad thing. Being alone gives you time to know, discover, and rediscover yourself. When you understand who you are, you’ll know what you want and how you want to be treated in a relationship.
Enjoy your alone time. Focus on improving yourself. When the right person comes along, you’ll be ready. There’s no rush. The right guy will come eventually, and you’ll be glad you waited.
4. They Feel Pressured to Be Nice
Society often assumes that pretty girls are mean or stuck-up. Because of this, some pretty girls feel pressured to act overly nice so they won’t be labeled as bad or mean. You don’t have to act a certain way to please anyone. Be yourself. Respect people and treat them nicely, but don’t feel pressured to say yes to a guy you’re not interested in.
If you don’t fancy a guy, let him know politely and move on. If he can’t accept it, that’s his problem, not yours. You don’t owe anyone a relationship. Saying yes just to be nice will only make you unhappy. Be honest with yourself. If it’s no, it’s no. Being yourself isn’t being mean.
5. They Like Being Taken Care Of
Pretty girls are often used to a certain lifestyle because they get a lot of attention from men. Some get used to having things handed to them and would rather not work or lift a finger.
Losers understand this. They splash money around, and the girls fall for it. They stay because they don’t want to lose the lifestyle, even at the expense of their happiness.
Money isn’t gender-based. Women can make money, too. As a pretty girl, don’t sit around waiting for a man to take care of you. Go out, work, and earn your own money. It feels better to spend your own money than someone else’s.
6. They Believe There Are No Good Men Out There
This narrative has been repeated so often that many women believe it, but it isn’t true. There are many good men out there. You just haven’t met them yet.
As a pretty woman, you get more attention, so take your time to figure men out. Don’t rush, don’t be overly judgmental, and don’t jump to conclusions.
There are great men out there, just as there are great women. Change your perspective. Believe that good men exist. When you believe it, you open yourself up to meeting one.
You have no reason to settle for a loser. You deserve better. You’re not a savior, and you’re not here to fix anyone. You’re here to live well, enjoy yourself, and be happy.