You arrive on the scene, and it all looks interesting. There are many people around, most of them looking good. But one person stands out. He’s inarguably the most handsome man in the room, at least in your eyes. He’s so hot that you can feel many others checking him out and trying to get his attention. They want him as much as you do, if not more.
All hope isn’t lost. You can go home with him, but only if you play your cards right.
Here’s how to leave with the most attractive man in the room.
1. Be Intentional About Getting Noticed
How are you supposed to leave with that guy if he doesn't notice you? You need to get to work and be intentional about getting his attention. Let's say you are in a room full of people and everybody is talking. Now isn't the time to just keep quiet. If you keep quiet, he might not even know you are there.
Talk, join the conversation, and say something. Even if you don't know what to say, stand up and move around; just do something that would make him notice you. Since that guy is hot, he probably gets a lot of attention. There might be other people in the room trying to get his attention too.
It wouldn't be best for you to just walk up to him and start talking without making him notice you first. When you make him notice you, you establish familiarity. He gets used to your face. When you eventually speak with him, it will be easier for him to be receptive toward you because he already knows your face.
2. Create Demand by Interacting With Others
No guy wants to be with a girl that nobody else wants. No guy wants to be with a girl who is all by herself, who nobody is talking to. You're just going to look lonely and desperate if you don't interact with other guys and then suddenly try to speak with him.
You need to flirt with other guys. Create the impression that other guys want you. Let him know that you are the it girl with men at your beck and call. Once you create that impression, that hot guy would be happy to even talk to you because he would feel like he is talking to the girl that every other guy wants.
As men, we like to be with a girl that every other guy wants; it’s an ego thing. Interact with other guys, play with them, and flirt with them. When you do that, you'll be hard to miss. He would not only notice you but also wish to have your attention because if every other person wants to be around you, he'll think there might be something special about you.
3. Start an Organic Conversation
Now that you have made him notice you, you need to make a move. Waiting on him might not work because he might be shy or unsure if you really want him. Leave your seat and walk up to him, but don't be creepy about it. Know what to say beforehand.
The first thing you want to do is pay him a compliment. He probably hears that he’s sexy or hot all the time, so that might not cut it. Look for something else. You could compliment his clothes, shoes, wristwatch, or his perfume. Make the compliment as organic as possible so it doesn't look like you are just making things up.
Once you compliment him about something unique or personal, he would most likely blush and let down his guard. That is your cue to start making interesting conversation. The moment you begin to talk, he will no longer see you as a stranger. If he’s comfortable around you, he would want to have you around even more.
4. Use Light Physical Contact
While you're having that conversation, you need to make it obvious that you aren't just there to talk. Let him know you want something more. You need to touch him lightly. Don't be too close or all over him as that can be creepy.
If he says something funny, laugh and tap him playfully on the shoulder or the hand. Do that continuously, and he will get the hint that you want to be physical and don't mind going home with him tonight. Make sure you do that playfully so it isn’t awkward.
That physical touch would send a very strong message that you are very interested in him. It would only be normal for you to touch him lightly while laughing at a joke. This signals that you would love to be the one to go home with him.
5. Withdraw Strategically to Gauge Interest
When both of you are talking, and he's comfortable and having a good time, don't wait for him to withdraw. You need to be the one to do that. Come up with an excuse that you have to leave. If that guy is interested in continuing the conversation, he will try to make you stay.
If you really have to leave, he would want to see you again. Don't leave without getting his number. If he doesn't ask for your number, you need to ask for his or give him yours. Even if you leave and he doesn't see you, he can always reach out by calling or texting.
If that guy is having a good time, there’s a high chance he would make you stay or make you promise to come back when you are done. When the night is over, it would only be natural for both of you to leave the room together.
To get a man's attention, you need to make him notice you and see that other guys want you, too. If he doesn't walk up to you, you have to do the walking. Make physical contact and withdraw at the right time to gauge his interest.
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