She’s that girl that everyone admires, the centre of attraction, the life of the party, and of course, the girl every guy wants to be with! While she looks like she has it all going well for her, truth is, like every other woman, she’s not perfect, but she knows how to handle her mess and deal with her problems. Rather than join the bandwagon of women who only dream of being her, you too can learn how to be the “it” girl and rule not just your world.
5 Tips on how to be the “it” Girl
• Cultivate self-love
The 101 of being that girl everyone wants to be, is to love yourself for who you are. Believe it or not, no one is ever truly perfect, we all have our imperfections. But does that mean we have to live our lives in regrets and self-pity? No! Love yourself from within, for only then, can you begin to truly live and love others.
• Own your life
There’s just so much the world expects from us as humans. Everyone seems to know what is best for you and how you should lead your life. To be the “it” girl, you have to literally own your life, without seeking approval and validation from other people. Do “you” according to what seems morally right to you. If it makes you happy and you can sleep well at night without worries, then just do it.
• Develop a great fashion style
While this may seem shallow, it’s indeed necessary for you to be that girl that makes everyone curious. But then, it’s not all about getting the latest designer bags, shoes, and jewelry, but about creating your own style with the little you can afford. Ensure that your clothes look perfectly well on you and fit like they are custom made. And do away with clothes that don’t compliment your body.
• Set your own standards
Living life by your own standards has a way of making life less stressful. It means you need to have your own voice and know what you want. The “it” girl exudes a lot of confidence, and that’s simply because she knows what she wants at every given time. Now, this is not about trying to stay in control or appear strong, but about running things by your already established standards. Always act like the classy lady that you are. If it’s okay with you, say yes, and if it’s not okay, you don’t hesitate to say no. It shows that you know your worth and will not sell yourself short of it. There’s something attractive about a woman who will not bend her values just to please anyone.
• Have something to offer beyond your sexuality
While there’s nothing wrong with a woman owning and flaunting her sexuality, her whole life shouldn't revolve around her gender. You need to make people understand that you aren't just a pretty face, but a pretty face with brains. There’s a limit to how far your beauty can take you, what happens when beauty isn't the ticket needed to succeed? You don’t want to be stranded, do you?
Life too short to live another day on someone else’s terms. Just relax and breathe! You can be that woman that you've always wanted to be. Stop procrastinating and do it now. When you learn how to be the “it” girl, you’ll have men eating off your palms, and then, you can choose a real man who can fulfill all your desires and treat you like the princess that you are.
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