So you got intimate with him, and the next thing minute, he was telling everyone about it. What was meant to be private between you both became public knowledge. That’s not a nice place to be. While people can say whatever they want and it doesn’t define us, we owe it to ourselves not to put ourselves in such situations or engage with such people.
Here’s how to know that a man is a kiss-and-tell.
1. He Talks Too Much and Has a Big Mouth
He has a big mouth and a hard time shutting up. He goes on and on, talking about this and that. With him, there’s hardly a quiet moment. There’s always something to talk about. He talks about everything, even what he shouldn’t. He talks about what you ask him and what you don’t.
Men aren’t typically talkative. We aren’t. So when a guy talks too much and doesn’t know when to shut up, there’s a high chance he’s a kiss-and-tell. When people talk too much, they’re always looking for what to talk about. They search for things to say, even when you don’t ask them questions. When he runs out of things to say, he might start talking about your business. He’ll begin discussing what you both did together. It’s meant to be private, but because he has to say something and entertain people, your business becomes the topic of discussion. If he’s always talking, there’s a high chance he’s a kiss-and-tell.
2. He Brags About Everything
Does he have a habit of bragging? Is he proud? Does he like to talk about all his encounters and experiences? Does he go on and on about who he is, what he has, and what he’s done?
If he loves to brag, he’ll always look for something to brag about. Sleeping with women or doing intimate stuff with women could be one of those things. He’s always looking for things to say to score high points, especially with his guys. In his mind, doing intimate stuff with women might feel like an achievement, so he talks about it.
It’s fine to brag about certain achievements if you worked hard for them. If you don’t talk about your achievements, who will? But some things are meant to be private. A guy who brags a lot often can’t draw the line between what’s private and what’s public. He talks about everything, including your business. If he brags a lot, there’s a high chance he’s a kiss-and-tell.
3. He Gossips About Other People
Does he gossip about other people to you? Does he tell you other people’s business? Here’s how it works. When someone gossips about others to you, there’s a high chance they’ll tell others your business. If he has a habit of gossiping and you indulge him by listening, that’s the same way he’ll tell others about your private life. He’ll talk about the things you both did in private.
A guy who gossips is always looking for things to gossip about. If he can tell you other people’s private stuff, there’s no reason he won’t tell them about yours. If he’s a gossip, especially with you, there’s a high chance he’s telling other people your business. He’s definitely a kiss-and-tell.
4. He Can’t Keep a Secret
Have you ever told him something, only to hear it from someone else? Maybe it didn’t happen once or twice. There you have it. He can’t keep a secret.
If he can’t keep things you told him private, what makes you think he can keep your intimate business private? A guy who can’t keep a secret doesn’t understand confidentiality. If you think things will remain between the two of you, you’re wasting your time because he’ll tell.
Being with a kiss-and-tell kind of guy can be embarrassing. Your private business suddenly becomes public knowledge. If he talks too much, brags a lot, gossips about others, and can’t keep a secret, he’s most likely a kiss-and-tell. Don’t do private or intimate stuff with him because he spreads news like gossip.
Sometimes we get involved with certain people and regret it later. While we shouldn’t dwell on regrets, we can hold ourselves accountable to do better now and in the future. Have you ever been with a kiss-and-tell? What was the experience like? Drop a comment below.
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