Beautiful girls easily stand out in a crowd - their beauty is hard to miss. Everyone, including people who aren’t superficial, notices it.
In a society driven by face value, beauty is associated with power and authority. It’s common knowledge that beautiful women command attention. Many men are at their beck and call, willing to do their bidding. With all these benefits, one would think that the most beautiful women would have the best men in the lot. But that’s not true. A lot of them often end up with losers.
The word “loser” means different things. For context, it means unambitious men – the kind of men who lack the drive to make something meaningful of themselves. They are hardly at the top of their careers, and don’t have much to offer.
Why would the prettiest women choose them?
1. Lack of Self-confidence
When you see a beautiful woman, you’d think she’s very confident because someone who commands so much attention should feel good about themselves. However, many beautiful women suffer from a lack of confidence. This is usually due to the pressure to excel. Society has an impression that they get whatever they want. For this reason, they are supposed to always be at their best. When they can't meet that standard, they are deemed failures. Statements like “beauty without brains” are thrown at them.
Beautiful girls often feel the need to sound like the most intelligent in the room. When they say something unintelligent, they are criticized heavily, and it affects their self-esteem. This holds them back from expressing themselves.
2. Reeling With the Savior Complex
Some beautiful women tend to always want to save men. They have a nurturing heart that draws them to guys who need to be nurtured. They neglect any red flags in these men, and go on to play the role of a mother and savior.
The most beautiful women have a savior complex, believing they can change a bad man. A grown man chooses his path. If he has decided to be irresponsible, it’s his cross to bear. When a pretty girl tries to save him, he pulls her down, drawing her deeper into his mess.
3. Dreading Loneliness
Not many people want to be single and lonely in life, and the most beautiful women are no exception. Their beauty does not protect them against loneliness. While they command attention, they may not be able to sustain it.
Many men lust after stunning women. They just want to sleep with them and move on. This could leave such ladies lonely without long-term relationships. This rejection is frightening. Instead of being alone, they would rather be with any man who shows an interest in staying with them for the long haul even if he’s a douchebag.
4. Falling for Manipulation
Men have a reputation for being manipulative. They seek the weakness in women and exploit them for selfish gains. Beautiful women are used to being pampered. They like to hear sweet nothings. Losers take advantage of this weakness to win their heart. They love-bomb them, promising to cater to their needs.
Once these women begin to love such men, they can’t think clearly. It's only a matter of time before they exert complete control over their emotions and manipulate them to pander to their needs.
5. Rebelling Against Expectations
Society has high expectations of beautiful women. They are meant to have the best men because they have the looks to get any man. Some women find this to be controlling like they are being told how to live their lives.
Out of rebellion, gorgeous women may choose to do the opposite. They pick men who are nothing close to what society dictates to them. It’s their way of being in charge of their lives.
6. Bad Judgment of Character
Beauty can be misleading. Many pretty women like to date handsome men. They overlook character and other significant attributes, focusing on external beauty. A lot of handsome men have nothing to offer.
These women get themselves deep into relationships with douchebags before realizing that they have made the wrong decision. Afraid of what people would say, they choose to remain with them and suffer the repercussions.
7. Neglecting Boundaries
You would be surprised that the most beautiful women don't have strong boundaries while dealing with men. This is the case especially when they have been mistreated in previous relationships, leaving them with a flawed idea of how a woman should be treated.
They don't have a good sense of value and worth. This makes them accept whatever treatment a man metes out to them. They cannot demand to be treated better because they don't know what that looks like. This is a major reason why the most beautiful girls end up with losers.
8. Being Attracted to the Underdog
The underdog is often overlooked by many. However, it can be attractive. There's a mystery surrounding it that intrigues beautiful women. Attractive women get close to underdog men out of curiosity. Before they know it, they start developing a deep connection with them.
In getting closer to these men, they let their guards down. This makes it easier for the men to win their trust and mislead them. Beautiful women with good intentions are quick to see potential in unsuccessful men. They want to give them a fair chance to thrive and succeed. In most cases, it doesn't end well because the men are opportunists looking for meal tickets.
9. Wanting to Be in Control
Some beautiful women like to control men. They use their beauty as a weapon to wrap men around their little fingers. They understand that men are eager to be with them for their appearance, and take advantage of that.
Loser men often give in to this control because they don’t have much to offer. As long as they are benefitting from the women, they keep quiet and let her be in charge. Such women aren’t interested in being with men of substance because they won’t condone it.
Beautiful Women Want to Be Loved
Beautiful women have struggles like everyone else. Contrary to what many might think, they don’t always have the best men in their lives. Having a douchebag in their life seems like a better option than being alone. They seek to be loved for who they are, beyond their beauty. If losers can give them that, they are content with being with them.