With recent developments in society, it looks like a woman’s worth is complete only when she adds the suffix “Mrs.” to her name. She gets so much respect even from people whom hitherto, couldn't care less about her. And for that reason, every woman can’t wait to join the league of the married.
So you are with this guy who tastes as sweet as honey to you. And as far as you are concerned, he’s husband material. Well, it doesn't hurt to be a little bit careful by checking out some warning signs you shouldn't marry him in order to avoid a disaster.
There shouldn't be a power tussle in a relationship. And no one is contesting the place of the man as the head, but a woman also plays the role of the neck that holds the head. Both parties are important and can only work together if they agree. If all he does is order you around and force his choices on you, then you might want to think twice.
So you are with this guy who tastes as sweet as honey to you. And as far as you are concerned, he’s husband material. Well, it doesn't hurt to be a little bit careful by checking out some warning signs you shouldn't marry him in order to avoid a disaster.
4 Warning Signs you shouldn't Marry Him
• He wants to be the bossThere shouldn't be a power tussle in a relationship. And no one is contesting the place of the man as the head, but a woman also plays the role of the neck that holds the head. Both parties are important and can only work together if they agree. If all he does is order you around and force his choices on you, then you might want to think twice.
• He treats you like an option
To you, he’s the only one. Not that you don’t see the many others who want to have you, but you chose him above all. It’s only natural that he sees you in the same light. If you are just another girl to him and not the only one he truly wants to be with, then you are about to take a very big risk by walking down the aisle with him. When you are an option, he could always push you aside and choose someone else.
• His words are not true
One of the qualities of a real man is his ability to make promises and keep to them. He understands that it’s better not to make promises at all than to make them and not fulfill them. You don’t want a marriage full of failed promises; you’ll be in a very bad place.
• He can’t be trusted
Trust cannot be substituted with love in marriage. You need to be able to let your man spread his wings and fly as far as he wants, without losing your sleep. Even when he isn’t with you for months, you should have that trust in him that he’s not sleeping around.
When a woman tries her best to be wife material, it’s only fair that she ends up with a good man for a husband. Don’t make excuses for your man if he exhibits these warning signs you shouldn’t marry him. Take a walk now that you can without much trouble.
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