In a society where looks is given too much attention, dating a handsome man can be a lot of work for a woman, most especially the average looking one. Most people are driven by superficial qualities, thus ignoring the things that should really matter. It’s never an easy ‘task’ but it’s certainly not too difficult to handle once you know your priorities.
6 Tips on dating a handsome Man
• Self-confidence
They say dating a handsome man is intimidating. While there’s some truth in that, it can only happen when you allow it to. First of all, he’s human just like you. He may be good looking, but you are good looking too. So, what’s wrong with two good looking people having an affair? Oh please, give yourself some credit; you aren’t as bad looking as you think, otherwise, he wouldn’t be caught with you in the first place.
• Don’t make assumptions
In your head, you make up a thousand and one reasons why someone like him shouldn’t be with someone like you. You think he’s with you for the wrong reasons. You think he’s settling for you. Just one question please, did he tell you any of these or are you just making them up? Jumping to conclusions will do you no good. Don’t make decisions for him without his consent. Let him be the one to worry about being with someone like you.
• Focus on your inner qualities
Being beautiful is a good thing but it’s oftentimes superficial. There’s a lot to consider in being with someone other than their looks. You may not be the most beautiful woman in the world but you certainly have some unique qualities that got him attracted to you in the first place. Rather than whine about how unworthy you are of him, pay attention to the good woman inside of you and give him more reasons to fall deeper in love with you.
• Don’t be insecure
Insecurity can destroy your relationship sooner than you think. Fine, other girls might be drooling over him, but the question is, does he give them attention? It’s not his fault that they admire him, the best he can do is to ignore their advances. If you can attest to the fact that he isn’t interested in anyone but you, then you need to stop being worried over nothing.
• Be yourself
You don’t have to go over the edge to keep your man. Yes, you have to make efforts but you don’t have to fake it. You can’t force a gorgeous man to stay with you by trying too hard. He will stay with you only when he truly wants to stay. And the best way to convince him is by keeping it real. He definitely saw something in you before choosing you over others, so why throw it away? Dating a handsome man becomes a norm when you are original.
• Show him you care
He might be getting a lot of attention from other women, but he needs more of that from you. You shouldn’t waste your time worrying over what isn’t happening but cater to him. Show him that your love for him is beyond his looks. Yes, you love the fact that he’s good looking but you love his heart more.
A handsome man is human too. He wants to feel loved and cared for. He might have a cute face but at the end of the day, he’s going to end up with someone and that person might as well be you. What makes another woman more qualified than you? Dating a handsome is exactly what you make of it. If you think he’s too good for you, then you shouldn’t be with him in the first place.
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