Is there a girl you like and you want to make her feel the same way about you? You can't get your eyes off her nor stop thinking about her all day and all night.
Love is a beautiful thing. It feels good to love someone and to be loved in return. Mutual love is integral to every relationship. In its absence, you begin to feel like you're in the relationship all by yourself.
There's a certain kind of confidence that comes with knowing that the person you're in love with feels the same way about you. Here’s how to make her fall madly in love with you.
Make Great Conversations
This might sound like the easiest thing in the world, but in reality, it is not easy for a lot of guys. First of all, you need to relax your nerves because talking to a woman you love can be nerve-wracking. There's a tendency for you to start feeling some type of way. All of those emotions running through your body, your stomach, can be crazy.
But you need to relax your nerves. It's not that serious. What's the worst that could happen?
Calm down and act like you're talking to a friend. If you were talking to a friend, you would definitely be relaxed, wouldn't you? So think of it that way. Get the nerves off your shoulders.
An easy subject for a conversation with her is your immediate environment. Where are you guys? Are you guys at school, at work, at the gym, or outdoors, just taking fresh air?
Think of something that has to do with your environment, something that both of you can relate to. You could just say something about the weather, like “Oh, the weather is great, isn’t it?”
She will have something else to add to the conversation, and before you know it, you guys will be making progress.
Think of something that you're very passionate about. What makes your eyes light up? If you love music, talk about your favorite musicians or your favorite songs, and before you know it, she will be participating in the conversation.
The good thing about talking about something you're passionate about is that it makes you look good. You begin to radiate all that positive energy, making you look very attractive.
You don't want to talk about negative stuff, so you should stay off controversial subjects. This is not the time to talk about politics and socio-cultural issues. You guys are two different people, so she might not share your opinions and beliefs. Don't start an argument.
It's okay for you to pause during your conversation. Don't feel pressured to keep talking all the time. You're not running a commentary. Think about it; when you're having a conversation with friends, there comes a time when there’s total silence, no one is talking. Don't feel like it's awkward, and don't pressure yourself to always have something to say.
You mustn't generate topics back-to-back. Your being quiet is a chance for her to chip in on the conversation. This isn’t a presentation where one person does all the talking. You're not a teacher, a lecturer, or a speaker at an event that she's attending. You guys are having a conversation. It's meant to be interactive.
Some guys get carried away talking about themselves. They just can't wait to share all the awesome stuff about themselves and talk nonstop. No, you don't want to do that. You don't want to give her the impression that you are self-centered and narcissistic.
While you're talking, you need to let her talk too, to share her own opinions about the subject, otherwise you would put her off and remain single for a while.
Compliment Her Generously
Women put so much work into looking good. If you guys are on a date, she must have put in some effort into her appearance to impress you. Are you going to act like you're not seeing all of that? Are you going to act like she's not looking beautiful? No way.
You have to tell her exactly what you see. If you think she looks good, say it. If you think she looks great, say it. Don't keep quiet.
When you compliment her, you are indirectly saying, “you know what girl? I see you. I see you 100%. This isn’t the time to be quiet.
You can pay her compliments about her looks. You love her dress, you love her shoes, you love everything she's wearing. But you don't want to be that guy who is only interested in the physical stuff. That would be shallow. She may have a lot of guys who are all about the physical stuff, the physical package. That's all they're interested in. She wants more. She wants to know that you're looking beyond her physical attributes.
So, take it a notch higher. Tell her that you love her presence. You love her mind. You love the way she thinks. You love her confidence. You love her brilliance. Take it deeper. When you do that, you're telling her that you see her inner qualities. You're telling her that you see beyond her looks.
She would appreciate compliments that are not just physical but also intellectual. Pay close attention to what she's saying and let her know that she’s making sense.
While it's a good thing for you to be generous with your compliments, don't go overboard with it. Don't be insincere. Don't say things you don't mean just to make her feel good. When you do that, it's only a matter of time before she sees through you.
You can exaggerate your compliments. If she looks good, you can tell her that she looks like the most beautiful woman in the world. You may be exaggerating, but you're not lying. It's okay to say, “You know what? This is the most beautiful dress I’ve ever seen on a woman.”
That may not be exactly true, but she’ll understand that you’re gassing her up. You're not necessarily lying. You love the dress. The dress is beautiful. But don't say things that have no atom of truth in them. If you do that, the whole essence of complimenting her will be defeated.
Show Up for Her
If a woman wants to fall in love, she wants to fall in love with a man who will be there for her. So, how do you show her that you will be there for her? Make yourself available physically and emotionally. You have to check on her and be a man she can count on. These acts can make you come across as a romantic man, a trait that ladies like in men.
Don't be one of those guys who don't keep what they say. Don't be that guy who tells her what she wants to hear just to have his way with her. Talk is cheap. Back your words with action. And the thing is, if you're not real, sooner or later, she's going to find out. And I can assure you that when she finds out, she's going to kick you out the door. You're not going to stand a chance.
Only say what you can do. If you love her, show her with your actions. Don't assume she's okay just because she's not saying anything. Don't assume she's fine just because she's not crying or lamenting.
Pay close attention to her to the point where you can tell when something is wrong. Share in her pain. Don't be that guy who is only present in the good times. In the bad times, you also have to be there.
Be the first person she calls when something is wrong. Be the guy she wants to call when she can't sleep at night - the one who offers her a shoulder to lean on and an ear to talk to.
Don’t be inconsistent. You're here today, and tomorrow you're not. That's not cool. If you're able to be there for her and show her you have her back and that she can count on you, why wouldn't she fall in love with you?
When you're there for her as someone reliable and loyal, when you have her back, she’ll begin to fall in love with you.
Be Her Biggest Cheerleader
She has dreams, ambitions, and aspirations. Be that guy who pushes her to achieve them. Be that guy she wants to share her ideas with because she knows that you will motivate her to achieve them.
Don't act like you don't care. Don't act like you don't want to know what she's up to. Be that guy who will share her wins with her - the guy who will share her victories with her. If you’re that person, it's only a matter of time before she begins to fall deeply in love with you.
Don't be a killjoy. When she shares her ideas with you, motivate her to get to work. Make her see all of the possibilities. Don't be a pessimist. Don't be that guy who outlines all the reasons why her ideas won’t work. Don't be that guy who gives her a thousand and one reasons why what she's thinking about isn’t feasible.
Instead, be the guy who makes her see all the possibilities. Be the guy who makes her feel like she can do the impossible, like she can change the world positively.
Look for little ways to make her plans and ideas come to reality. It could be in the smallest things. If she has to be somewhere, for instance, help her plan how to get there.
When she feels comfortable with you, when she knows that you have her back, that you want her to succeed, why wouldn't she want to be with you? When she knows that her wins are your wins, why wouldn't she want to be with you?
Do stuff for her that would take her closer to her dreams. Push her to be the best that she can be. Cheer her on. Celebrate her wins. Don't ask unnecessary questions. When she shares something good with you, celebrate it loudly. Blow her trumpet. Tell everybody who cares to listen about how awesome she is. Sing her praises. Acknowledge her strengths. These are good ways to get into her good graces and make her fall madly in love with you.
Make Her Feel Special
She’s a queen, a diamond, and a treasure. Make her feel like herself. Can I ask you a question? Do you love her? Make her see it in how you treat her. Let her see it in the way you talk to her. Let her see it in everything you do for her and with her. You don't say you love someone and not show it. Talk is cheap; back it up with actions.
When there's love, there's the need to share. You want to share what you have with her. You want to share yourself with her. When you see something you think she’ll like, get it for her. Don't look the other way. It’ll make her feel like she’s really special to you. It will make her feel like she's not just another woman in your life but someone that you truly love and care about.
Be eager to do stuff for her. Don't wait until she asks you. Try to make her day less stressful. When she has a list of things to do for the day, offer to help her out. Offer to give her a ride to that meeting. Offer to pick her up from that event. Doing these things for her will make her think about you every second.
When she's having a stressful day, ask yourself, what can I do to make her day less stressful? What can I do to make her day more fun? What can I do to make her feel special and loved? It's all in your hands.
Be eager to make her feel loved because, at the end of the day, she's a remarkable woman to you. Always remind her of that. When you prioritize her well-being, she’ll recognize your efforts and gradually start to develop strong feelings for you.