A Player is that guy who derives pleasure from fooling girls around. He clearly enjoys every bit of it because he always has them at the tip of his fingers. Well, you can turn the tables around for a change. How about giving him a taste of his own medicine? Yes, you can do it by knowing just how to play a player. Are you ready for it? If you are, then let’s find out.
5 ways to play a Player
• Ignore him
The first step to playing a player is to totally ignore him at first. He obviously needs your attention for him to mesmerize you with his delusional charms. You need to make him know that you don’t have time for his kind. When he comes around, act like he isn’t there. You don’t have to be rude to him. When he reaches out to you, say a passive “hello” and look the other way. Making him sweat to get your attention is a sign that you aren’t one of those girls he can get easily.
• Be unavailable
So you suffered him for a while before you eventually gave him your time to recite his memorized lines. Since the game plan is to give him a dose of his own medicine, you shouldn’t outrightly turn him down; just be on the fence. Don’t say “yes” or “no.” Instead, give him body signs that you could be interested in him. Making him feel like he doesn’t have you fully to himself will make keep him on his toes.
• Hang out with other guys
He has other girls he’s playing around with, so you might as well have other guys to hang out with. You don’t need to have anything intimate with these guys; just hang out with them for the fun of it. And no, you don’t have to hide it from him. If he asks, let him know that you are hanging out with your male friends.
• Act immune to his charms
A Player is charming and he knows it. He knows that that’s what most ladies like about him. You don’t have to act like one of them. I know you have blood running in your veins, but if you want to play a player, you must act like there’s no blood in there. When he acts all charming, look the other way. That’d make him understand that you don’t even find him charming, so he could try something else.
• Don’t pay attention to him
A player would play you harder once he sees that his tricks are affecting you. Now is the time for you to act like you couldn’t care less about him. You shouldn’t be in love with him in the first place, so your heart shouldn’t be involved. Even when he plays around with other girls, don’t be bothered. In fact, while he’s out having fun, go out and have your own fun too. He’d be left wondering what kind of woman you are.
The best way to deal with a player is to not get emotionally involved with him. You don’t have to keep crying because of a man who doesn’t deserve you. If you must play a player, you must keep your feelings aside. You aren’t doing it because you are a bad person; you just want to prove a point to him that not all women can be taken for a ride.
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