Respect is an essential ingredient in a relationship. As a man, not only do you want your woman to love you, you also want her to respect you. It’s possible for a girl to date you without respecting you. What’s the essence of being with a girl who has no respect for you? These signs of a disrespectful girlfriend will let you know if your woman respects you or not.
5 Signs of a Disrespectful Girlfriend
• She doesn’t listen to you
As a couple, you and your girlfriend are supposed to take decisions together. It’s not all about what you want as individuals. If you gave your girlfriend your opinion on how to do things, and she went ahead to do them her own way, without your consent, it shows that she has no respect for you. She couldn’t care less about your opinion.
• She makes derogatory comments
You can tell from the comments she makes to you during conversations whether she’s disrespectful or not. For example, you two are having a chat, and she says “you are so dumb.” Hello? Where did that come from? If what you said truly didn’t make any sense, the least she could do was to correct you politely. If you keep ignoring such comments, she’d take it further.
• She’s quick to talk back at you always
There’s nothing wrong with your girlfriend airing her own point of view; she has the right to do that. But a respectful girl knows how to air her views without being disrespectful. When your girlfriend is quick to talk back at you all the time, it’s a sign that she has no regard for you. A respectful girlfriend understands that silence is golden. She’d keep quiet when you are upset, and explain herself when you are calm.
• She stands you up
One of the signs of a disrespectful girlfriend is that she stands you up every now and then. You fix a date with her approval, and when you get there, she’s nowhere to be found. It’s possible that she had a change of plans, but she should have the decency to inform you until.
• She complains to everybody about you
A girl who respects you wouldn’t discuss you with everybody. She could complain to her best friends and family members when things are bad between you two, but not the whole world. When everybody becomes aware of what a bad boyfriend you are, it’s a sign that your girlfriend has no respect for you.
A girlfriend who doesn’t respect you isn’t trustworthy and reliable. She wouldn’t hesitate to abandon you in difficult times. If you notice these signs of a disrespectful girlfriend in your woman, you can either sort things out or find yourself a woman who will show you some respect.
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