Learning that your woman is having an affair at work is the last thing you want to hear. You two are supposed to be in a beautiful relationship. She seems happy and content. But unknown to you, she’s having an affair with a colleague. She thinks she’s being smart by hiding it from you, but if you looked closely, you would see the signs.
1. She Becomes More Conscious of Her Appearance at Work
She’s more mindful of how she looks and dresses for work. Of course, a woman is expected to look good at work. She’s expected to kill it, close deals, and look the part. Before now, your woman was probably uninterested in putting in extra effort. She did the minimum, just enough to look presentable. Nothing extra, nothing extraordinary. Then all of a sudden, she’s putting in so much work. She doesn’t just want to look good; she wants to look perfect.
If she’s putting in all that effort, she’s trying to impress somebody, and it’s not her boss. The only thing she owes her boss is performance, not appearance. If your woman suddenly starts paying so much attention to how she looks when she’s going to the office, she’s trying to impress someone at work. She wants to show up looking very good, very classy, and very attractive. If this wasn’t her pattern before and it suddenly changes, she’s trying to impress a man at work because she’s having an affair with him.
2. There’s a Change in Her Work Patterns
She begins working longer hours. Before now, she was probably home by 7 p.m. or 8 p.m., depending on traffic. This doesn’t automatically mean she’s cheating. Sometimes work genuinely demands longer hours. But if this has never been her pattern, you might want to take a closer look. If she’s suddenly spending longer hours at work, you may want to confirm whether she’s actually at work.
It’s possible she isn’t even at the office. She could be going on dates after work or visiting someone, but she has to tell you. Saying she’s working gives her an excuse because work is something you can’t easily question. If her work patterns change suddenly and consistently, there’s a chance she’s having an affair with a co-worker.
3. She Stops Talking About Work Activities
Before, she loved talking about work. She would tell you everything that happened, and you probably listened even when it bored you. Now, she barely talks about work. She keeps quiet, and when you ask questions, she becomes elusive and evasive. She avoids answering because the more she talks, the greater the chance of slipping up and revealing something she doesn’t want you to know.
This is a huge red flag. If she used to talk endlessly about work and suddenly stops, something has changed. That change could be an affair with someone at work.
4. She Doesn’t Want You Visiting Her at Work
She used to love it when you came around. You could even surprise her, and she’d enjoy it. Now, she doesn’t want any of that. If you suggest stopping by, she shuts it down immediately. She doesn’t want you to see what’s happening at work. She’s afraid you might see the person she’s having an affair with, and she wants to avoid that drama.
If you showed up, the other person wouldn’t be happy, and it could cause problems. The safest option for her is to keep you away. Unless her workplace prohibits visitors, there’s no real reason you shouldn’t visit. If she suddenly doesn’t want you around at all, there’s a high chance she’s having an affair at work.
5. She Doesn’t Want You at Office Events
There’s an event, and you’re the obvious person to go with her, but she doesn’t want that. She wants to attend alone so she can spend time with her date at work. If you’re there, she can’t do that. She sees you at home every day, so she’d rather spend time with this person at work during these events. That’s why she keeps you out of the picture.
If she suddenly puts extra effort into her appearance, changes her work patterns, stops talking about work, doesn’t want you visiting her office, and doesn’t want you at work events, she may be hiding something. These signs may indicate she’s having an affair at work.
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